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Developmental Milestones

Developmental challenges affect not only your child but also your family. As a parent, you have a deep understanding and compassion for these challenges. Yet, navigating this path can be incredibly daunting, especially when you're unsure where to turn for guidance.

It's only natural to feel worried and uncertain about the best steps to take. If you're seeking support, there are a few steps you might consider:

Developmental challenges affect not only your child but also your family. As a parent, you have a deep understanding and compassion for these challenges. Yet, navigating this path can be incredibly daunting, especially when you're unsure where to turn for guidance.

It's only natural to feel worried and uncertain about the best steps to take. If you're seeking support, there are a few steps you might consider:

  • Speaking with a Pediatrician: They can offer professional insights and recommend specialists.

  • Connect with Support Groups: Other parents who have faced similar situations can offer invaluable advice and support.

  • Educational Resources: Many schools and organizations have resources for children with developmental challenges.

  • Therapists and Counselors: Professional support can be beneficial not just for the child, but for the entire family.

Developmental Milestones

Developmental Milestones are included at the age most children (75%) would be expected to demonstrate the milestone.

Criteria for Developmental Milestones

  1. Are easy for families of different social, cultural, and ethnic backgrounds to observe and use

  2. Are able to be answered with “yes”, “not yet”, or “not sure”

  3. Use plain language, avoiding vague terms like “may”, “can”, and “begins”

  4. Are organized in developmental domains

  5. Show progression of skills with age, when possible

Sample of Developmental Milestones by Age

1 month

  • Turns head from check to cheek when on tummy

  • Lifts head momentarily when on tummy

  • Lifts head (bobbing) when held in vertical position at adult’s shoulder

  • Kicks legs rhythmically 2-3 cycles when on their back

  • Looks at faces and objects

6 months

  • Puts things in her mouth to eplore them

  • Reaches to grab a toy he wants

  • Rolls from tummy to back

  • Pushes up with straight arms when on tummy

  • Knows familiar people

12 months

  • Waves “bye-bye”

  • Looks for things he sees you hide, like a toy under a blanket

  • Puts something in a container, like a block in a cup

  • Pulls up to stand

  • Walks, holding onto furniture

24 months

  • Holds something in 1 hand while using the other hand, for example, holding a container and taking the lid off

  • Tries to use switches, knobs, or buttons on a toy

  • Plays with greater than one toy at the same time, like putting toy food on a toy plate

  • Kicks a ball

  • Runs

3 years

  • Draws a circle when you show him how

  • Avoids touching hot objects, like a stove, when you warn her

  • Strings items together, like large beads or macaroni

  • Puts on some clothes by himself, like loose pants or a jacket

  • Calms down within 10 min after you leave her, like at childcare drop off

4 years

  • Names a few colors of items

  • Tells what comes next in a well-known story

  • Draws a person with greater than 3 body parts

  • Catches a large ball most of the time

  • Serves himself food or pours water, with adult supervision

5 years

  • Counts to 10

  • Names some numbers between 1 and 5 when you point to them

  • Uses words about time, like “yesterday”, “tomorrow”, “morning”, or “night”

  • Pays attention for 5-10 minutes during activities, for example, during story time or making arts and crafts (screen time does not count)

  • Writes some letters in her name

If you need more information about developmental milestones or need to discuss specific concerns and seek more targeted advice, please contact Child First. We are here to help you explore options.

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